Why I’m Reconsidering Hunting as a Mom
A conversation rethinking the ethics of hunting with my friend, Zach Ivey.
SEASON 1 | EPISODE 104
This week I’m sitting down with one of my oldest friends, Zach Ivey, and we’re talking about hunting. Not as a hobby, but as a way of raising boys who can face real life without flinching.
I didn’t grow up around hunters and honestly, I didn’t “get it.” For a long time I resented what hunting took away from families, but now that I have sons, my perspective has shifted. A lot.
We talk about what ethical hunting actually looks like (and what unethical hunting looks like), why hunters fund conservation in ways most people don’t realize, and why wild turkeys literally wouldn’t exist today without hunters. We get into population control, respect for animals, what a “clean kill” really means, and why disassociating from death doesn’t make us more compassionate — it just makes us more comfortable.
But the core of this conversation is this:
I want my sons to learn how to handle power without becoming cruel
I want them to learn patience, discipline, respect for life, and responsibility for their actions.
I think hunting (when done right) teaches those things in a way very few modern experiences do.
If you’ve ever judged hunters, felt judged for hunting, or you’re raising boys and wondering how to teach them masculinity without turning it into something hollow or destructive, this episode will probably mess with your assumptions (in a good way).
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